{"id":338,"date":"2021-11-14T01:10:23","date_gmt":"2021-11-14T02:10:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/overallcontacts.com\/?p=338"},"modified":"2025-05-19T12:28:59","modified_gmt":"2025-05-19T12:28:59","slug":"7-important-tips-for-dating-an-introvert","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/overallcontacts.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/14\/7-important-tips-for-dating-an-introvert\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Important Tips for Dating an Introvert"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Opposites really do attract, don\u2019t they? If you\u2019re an extrovert and your favorite person is an introvert, you might be looking for information about dating an introvert to learn how to be more supportive in your relationship.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s great; you\u2019ve come to the right place! Learning more about dating an introvert is going to be especially helpful for you if you\u2019re a full-blown extrovert, the type of person who loves and is energized by social interactions.  Taking the time to learn more about dating an introvert will be appreciated by your favorite introvert, for sure!<\/p>\n

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What Being Introverted Really Means<\/h2>\n

Being introverted<\/a> doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you hate all large social groups and gatherings, or that you always prefer one-on-one activities and never feel like going to parties. Most of us are a mix of extroverted and introverted, with people who lean more towards the introverted side tending to need more recovery time after social interactions and activities and more prep time before.<\/p>\n

Learning more about how to be a better partner to your introverted significant other will benefit both of you!<\/p>\n

Tips for Dating an Introvert<\/h2>\n

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1) Ask what they need<\/h3>\n

Don\u2019t wait for them to tell you they need space, ask them how often they like to have alone time, and check in often, asking how they\u2019re feeling.<\/p>\n

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2) Don\u2019t take their need for solitude personally<\/h3>\n

Introverts commonly feel depleted after a lot of social interaction, even if it\u2019s just one-on-one with the person they love! Show your support by understanding time alone for them isn\u2019t about time away<\/em><\/strong> from you, it\u2019s time for themselves to recharge.<\/p>\n

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3) Plan dates that work for them<\/h3>\n

Perhaps your person might be more comfortable going out for coffee rather than going out for a drink in a crowded bar, or going for a hike rather than walking through a shopping mall. Ask for their feedback and take it seriously!<\/p>\n

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4) Give plenty of warning before a social activity<\/h3>\n

If you\u2019d like to invite them to a friend\u2019s party, give plenty of notice so they can mentally prepare for it. Surprise social engagements aren\u2019t typically a favorite of introverts.<\/p>\n

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5) Make space for them in the conversation<\/h3>\n

Sometimes extroverts can take an introvert\u2019s quieter, slower pace of sharing and speaking as a cue to talk more, but introverts have plenty to share too, as long as there\u2019s space for it! Make an effort to ask thoughtful questions and give space for the answers.<\/p>\n

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6) Be ready to compromise<\/h3>\n

For some extrovert\/introvert couples, this might look like trading off on date night ideas: one night is the extrovert\u2019s ideal date, one night is the introvert\u2019s ideal date. It also might look like making arrangements for dates where you know you (the extrovert) will probably want to stay longer, so maybe you decide in advance that an uber will be called to take the introvert home when they\u2019re done so the extrovert can stay and fill their cup, too.<\/p>\n

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7) Don\u2019t try to force them into social situations they are uncomfortable with<\/h3>\n

Introversion isn\u2019t the same thing as social anxiety or being shy, and an introverted person won\u2019t just \u201cget used to\u201d the same level of social activity that an extroverted person prefers. Relationships require accepting who we are. If you\u2019re trying to change someone, they are not the person for you.<\/p>\n

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As the relationship progresses and you get to know each other better, you and your significant other will likely find a great rhythm for your relationship. Extroverts often find that they begin to value the quieter, slower-paced activities and times of connection more because of their introverted partner, and introverted partners often find that they enjoy more group social interactions when they have their extrovert partner there to support them.<\/p>\n

Some extrovert\/introvert couples use a preset \u201cexcuse,\u201d code word, or even just a look that can be given when out in public so the introvert can subtly let the extrovert know they need some time to recharge.<\/p>\n

You can also learn how to better communicate your feelings for each other by learning what your love languages<\/a> are, too. Just by reaching out to learn more about dating an introvert, it is likely you and yours will eventually hit your ideal rhythm and your relationship will be all the stronger for the efforts made by both of you to show up as supportive, helpful partners for each other.<\/p>\n

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